Upstream: fixed u->conf->preserve_output (ticket #1519).

Previously, ngx_http_upstream_process_header() might be called after
we've finished reading response headers and switched to a different read
event handler, leading to errors with gRPC proxying.  Additionally,
the u->conf->read_timeout timer might be re-armed during reading response
headers (while this is expected to be a single timeout on reading
the whole response header).