SSL: ngx_ssl_shutdown() rework.

Instead of calling SSL_free() with each return point, introduced a single
place where cleanup happens.  As a positive side effect, this fixes two
potential memory leaks on ngx_handle_read_event() and ngx_handle_write_event()
errors where there were no SSL_free() calls (though unlikely practical,
as errors there are only expected to happen due to bugs or kernel issues).